Anti-bullying/Bullying – information for parents/carers
Norfolk Children’s Services believes that every child deserves to learn in a safe environment, free from harassment and bullying.
Bullying is something we all need to take very seriously. It is a deliberately hurtful act, which is repeated often over a period of time. It causes pain and distress to the victim, and is an abuse of power where the bully thinks he or she is in control and the victim feels powerless.
Everyone – staff, pupils, parents/carers and members of the community – has a role to play to stop bullying.
What is Bullying?
Bullying can range from physical violence to verbal abuse and being cut out of social groups. It also includes abusive texts, e-mails or nasty notes put on social networking sites (such as Facebook) and websites (known as cyber bullying). Bullying is not a one off incident such as a fight or when two equals have the odd fight or quarrel.
Being a bully, or being bullied, can happen to anyone and can have long-term effects.
Bullying is often secretive and hidden and staff may not always be aware of it. If you think your child is being bullied it is important to talk to the staff in that setting as soon as possible. Schools and settings are keen to address bullying matters swiftly and take steps, with you, to sort it out.
What are the types of Bullying?
- IMS (Instant Messaging Services)
- Chat rooms and Message Boards
- E mails
- Web cams
- Social network sites
- Virtual Learning Environments (VLE)
- Gaming sites, consoles and virtual world